Never Forget (September 11, 2001)

 

Long time readers may remember that every year on this day, I share an updated version of the original September 11/Never Forget post that I wrote a few years ago.

I cannot even believe it’s September 11 again. 17 years later and I still don’t forget where I was or how it has changed our lives forever. 

I see this monument outside of the mall on a weekly basis. Close to 500 people from my area alone died on September 11, 2001 and even as I write this post year after year, I still can’t comprehend.

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I often think about September 10, 2001 before it all happened. When life was innocent.

When I went to Roosevelt Field mall (yes, I like malls) during my lunch break from work looking for a gift for my mother since her birthday was the next day, September 11. Happy Birthday mom!

When you didn’t really look around you in the mall, worrying about where the emergency exits were or if the man over there was suspicious.

When you didn’t think about terrorists or taking your shoes off in the airport or worry that your peanut butter would somehow count for a liquid on an airplane.

It was the year of my engagement, two months before my wedding day and just a few weeks before my bridal shower.

I remember driving to work the morning of September 11 in the gorgeous morning sunshine with the sunroof open, taking note of the bright blue sky and crisp Autumn-like air. My office was about 30 minutes outside of Manhattan.

I remember being at my desk before 9:00 am (I was always early) and my coworker running in asking if anyone else had heard that a plane had crashed into the World Trader Center.

I remember calling my fiancé (funny to use that term now but that’s what my now ex-husband was) on his cell phone while he was driving to work and he answered shouting about what he was witnessing from the Long Island Expressway just a few exits from the midtown tunnel.

My coworkers and I gathered around to listen to the radio and watch news coverage on one small television.

We were sent home for the day before 11:00 am.

I remember sitting on the floor of the den eating a peanut butter and jelly with an apple for lunch as I watched the horrific news coverage on the television. I still lived at home at the time, home as in with my parents.

I still think about that pathetic peanut butter sandwich I ate on September 11 and the post I shared about it regarding my life back in 2001 with amenorrhea and trying to control what I ate. The memory of that pathetic peanut butter sandwich made with fake peanut butter and low calorie bread is forever a reminder of how ridiculous it was to overthink about calories, especially when the worlds of so many people were crumbling and life as we once knew it was changed forever.

I sat there eating and watching the news coverage while talking to my best friend Heather on the phone since she was also sent home for the day from work down in Florida. Her uncle worked in the Pentagon but he was okay.

I remember trying to reach friends and family in the city to see that they were okay but the phones didn’t connect so well.

I think back now to the difference in technology. We didn’t have text or cameras built into our phones, the internet didn’t serve us as it does now nor did we have a thing called social media to keep us informed and connected.

I had a Startac phone with no caller id, nothing smart about it other than dialing and offering me call waiting.

I remember baking chocolate chip cookies that night with my cousin Amy, replacing the oil with applesauce and even eating some of the dough raw.

My cousin Amy was stranded at our house because the bridges and tunnels were all shut down which meant she could not get back home to the city. She was working (or was it interning?) on the island at that time.

I remember going with Amy to get my mother a birthday cake that night from TCBY, the only store opened in the area. The town was basically deserted. All of the stores were closed and no one was on the road.

I remember barely sleeping at night for weeks because of the news coverage on television all night long of people looking for their missing loved ones.

I remember being afraid to leave the house in the dark, especially in the mornings before work when I would normally go to the gym.

So instead, I spent my time on the treadmill in my parents’ basement where I felt safe.

I remember hearing about friends of mine who lost their parents, relatives and close friends at the World Trader Center as well as learning about those close to me who survived.

I remember canceling my lavish honeymoon and changing the destination completely because we were afraid to fly or be too far from home, not sure of what the heck would be going on in the world.

I will never forget how afraid I was to go to my aunt’s apartment in the city to celebrate Rosh Hashanah, only a week later. I was afraid to go over the Triboro bridge and afraid to get out of the car when we parked on Lexington Avenue.

I remember the scent of lower Manhattan well over a month after September 11 when I had no choice but to be downtown for a meeting. The burning smell which lingered on for so long was so strong still at that point and it was a reminder of what we were living through.

I recall the one year anniversary of September 11th being almost as upsetting somehow as the actual day.

One of my co-workers brought in munchkins (not to celebrate but more as an emotional eating session) where we sat for a while and lots of us cried.

As the years keep passing, I don’t forget.

On September 11, 2003, I was nine months pregnant, picking up the keys to our first house which we closed on days earlier. I recall watching the 9/11 news coverage all morning while I continued to pack before going to meet my realtor.

On September 11, 2006, I watched the news coverage as I tried to get my son ready for his first day of preschool. A total disaster of a day – he cried the entire four hours of school and I cried listening to him cry as I sat in the preschool office unable to leave the building.

6 years ago today I left a part-time job in event planning to go off on my own to explore a career for myself by going back to school to further explore a new direction in health, fitness and freelance writing. It really couldn’t have been a happier time and major turning point in my life yet at the same time, I didn’t forget and will never forget.

And here I am today 17 years later, with a son who is in high school and his Bar Mitzvah behind us.

This year in particular is interesting though. I’ve been spending more time downtown in lower Manhattan than I have in my whole life. It’s weird for me. I can’t help but think about September 11 each and every time I’m there. I have flashes of what I remember from that day as well as replay the news clips that I have seen of what took place on those very streets. It’s eery. The Freedom Tower freaks me out too, even though we should be proud to see the recovery brought to life.

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I have an inside glimpse (one I’ve never had before this year) into how fighting terrorism LITERALLY takes over the lives of those select people in our country who spend 24/7 seeking intelligence to hunt down the terrorists who look to do this to us again. It’s crazy and surreal to think plots are still out there to do this type of damage again and we are lucky to have people in our country who are brave enough to risk their lives to fight for our safety and freedom.

So even if today is my mom’s birthday and still Rosh Hashanah (Happy New Year!), may we never forget and may a tragedy like this never happen again.

 

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Comments

  1. says

    Shana Tova! It is weird that the holiday is on 9/11 this year. I don’t think it has been yet. I remember being sent home from school after they called an assembly (I was only in 5th grade) and told everyone what happened. You had to wait for your parents to pick you up and some kids parents’ couldn’t come because they couldn’t leave the city, or worse. My mom came and picked up me and my friend because her mother ended up having to walk over the GW bridge and have her sister meet her in a car to leave Manhattan.

  2. jennifer samuel says

    Beautifully written Meredith! I can relate to so much of what you wrote. I got married just before 9/11, in June 2001. We wanted to get married in October, but the date we wanted at the venue wasnt available. And I remember sitting in the preschool with you, listening to our sons cry on their first day! Cant believe they are in high school now! L’shana tova!

    • says

      Awww it’s so incredibly good to hear from you!! Can you believe how we sat there that first day of preschool?! (And thank you for going out to get me lunch that day, I remember that too 🙂 We were the only parents who stayed the whole day and my kid, of course, was the only one to cry the entire day (for the first 6 weeks lol) — Happy New Year, hope all is well xoxo

  3. says

    This is so beautifully written. I was 12 when the attacks happened, and I spent six years too terrified to fly – I literally didn’t get on a plane until 2007.
    Also: happy birthday to your Mom!

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